I have a pretty decent Dedicated Server and have some of my 15 websites running on it. Of late all these websites have bee running slow and I found out that this is because of this one website. I'd like you to use my SSH or any other tool you want to use and find out which script or user is taking up so much of my resources. The CPU load of mysqld alone touches about 92% and when I deactivate this website it comes down to 10 or 12%.
I may hire you again to fix it if needed.
Looking for experienced people on this because the website is live and I dont want to lose anything.