Need ''Customizable'' video(youtube)/mp3 player

I realize that YouTube has a player that you can post on your website to play entries from their site.... I also realize that there are several mp3 players such as [login to view URL] & [login to view URL] where? I could enter or upload songs & post that player on my site.... I? need a player that has both of these features (Can play both types of files), but that also has a couple of "Buttons" that? are linked to the entries' "space" on the player and that I can enter code in the background that directs that "Linkable Button" to another third-party destination like itunes, the artist's preferred purchase point? or Amazon, where the listener can purchase the music legally. The player needs to be re-sizable & function like your average [login to view URL] or [login to view URL] type player....And needs to be easily reproduced like the playlist player so that different playlists can be created for specific player...So it needs the ability to be "Titled"...When the entry is not a YouTube entry...the screen shot could be open to be a custom? code entry to display a Cd-cover or some absract art action like on the windows media player.... If possible, but not necessary is the feature of making the files secure once they are in they player so that they cannot be "ripped" or "downloaded" from the player...