Guten Tag!
Here's my story before I work on freelancer
I have been on TanTan ( The Asian Tinder, which mostly speaks English ) I met this Thailanese-Australian blood, we spoke for a few months before the first meet-up, I live northern Indonesia, which is 1 hours flight away from Bangkok.
I spoke to her about 2 months before I score a date, we talk about each other, sharing daily activity, asking how's going and so on.. until finally, I step up the game I decided to fly over to BKK. It's quite awkward since we never meet in person, but yeah she's a fun person to talk with, so for we spent time together for 4 days. although the money is well-spent ( of course we being a man can't be too cheap, lol ) surfing, strolling around eateries, etc..
long story short, it's an unforgettable experience that I've ever got from dating app, although we decided to go on the separate way but we still in touch till today, and she doesn't want to go to that level yet.
My point is, try not to be a creep or pervert for the first time, try to maybe do some research about the girl, find the same interest, not too persuading but baby steps, take things slowly.
I hope my story qualify to be your helper, haha!
Cheers, and have a nice day!
einen schonen tag :)